In fact a mature person does not fall in love, he rises in love. The word ’fall’ is not right. Only immature people fall; they stumble and fall down in love. Somehow they were managing and standing. They cannot manage and they cannot stand – they find a woman and they are gone, they find a man and they are gone. They were always ready to fall on the ground and to creep. They don’t have the backbone, the spine; they don’t have that integrity to stand alone.
A mature person has the integrity to be alone. And when a mature person gives love, he gives without any strings attached to it: he simply gives. And when a mature person gives love, he feels grateful that you have accepted his love, not vice versa. He does not expect you to be thankful for it – no, not at all, he does not even need your thanks. He thanks you for accepting his love. And when two mature persons are in love, one of the greatest paradoxes of life happens, one of the most beautiful phenomena: they are together and yet tremendously alone; they are together so much so that they are almost one. But their oneness does not destroy their individuality, in fact, it enhances it: they become more individual.
Two mature persons in love help each other to become more free. There is no politics involved, no diplomacy, no effort to dominate. How can you dominate the person you love? Just think over it. Domination is a sort of hatred, anger, enmity. How can you think of dominating a person you love? You would love to see the person totally free, independent; you will give him more individuality. That’s why I call it the greatest paradox: they are together so much so that they are almost one, but still in that oneness they are individuals. Their individualities are not effaced – they have become more enhanced. The other has enriched them as far as their freedom is concerned.
Immature people falling in love destroy each other’s freedom, create a bondage, make a prison. Mature persons in love help each other to be free; they help each other to destroy all sorts of bondages. And when love flows with freedom there is beauty. When love flows with dependence there is ugliness.
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BLOGGER: She is Jeseth. A member of one of the KADAs here in Tumblr, BALIKADA. A girl scout. Beautiful in her simplest form.
MESSAGE: Hi Seth! I hope this db will inspire you. HAHA jk Usap tayo minsan ha pag online ako <3 God bless you. xoxo
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BLOGGER: She is AJ, 16 years old from Philippines. In a relationship, I guess? Believer of Christ. Pretty.
MESSAGE: Magkamukha kayo nung guy na nasa blog mo si Kuya ang tawag mo diba? Sana makausap kita minsan. Keep blogging! Huwag ka nang malungkot. Nandito lang kami *Hugs* God bless you! xoxo
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MESSAGE: Hi! Ikaw ang unang pumatol. Thank you <3 PAGPASENSYAHAN na at maiksi lamang ito. Hindi man tayo close, salamat pa din kasi hindi ka deadma. HAHA Keep smiling. Crush mo si MANOLO ha! Akin yun. Joke lang! God bless you! xoxo
”He may love you. He probably does. He probably thinks about you all the time. But that isn’t what matters. What matters is what he’s doing about it, and what he’s doing about it is nothing. And if he’s doing nothing, you most certainly shouldn’t do anything. You need someone who goes out of their way to make it obvious that they want you in their life.